Surveying your relationships is what Step 8 seemed to be all about for me. In order to dig into this step, I went back and spent some time perusing my Step 4 personal inventory spreadsheet.
When I was finally ready to work Step 4, I had just celebrated my first year of living life as a person who no longer drank alcohol. Seven of those months, I did it on my own and the last five months were spent in the rooms of AA.